This article is
co-written by my cousin, Robin Reaves Cochran
Bertie Biscuits
If you are raised in the south where family gatherings and
grandparents are some of your most special memories then I am sure you can
relate to the nostalgic stories I share about my grandmother Bertie Mae
Cochran. I hear people say all the time
that their mother or grandmother makes the best this or that. They fill in the blanks with things like
chicken-n-dumplings, dressing, chocolate pie, etc. We all have great memories of things that
stand out in our childhood or early years.
I was at my cousin’s wedding recently and I was listening to
several people talk about things they remember from days gone by. Recipe’s that their parents or grandparents
would whip up. They were simple and it
was before the fast food craze and before we all converted to eating out every
meal.
In our family having a meal with Granny (Bertie Mae) was
more than just about the food that she prepared. The meal was always nourishing and delicious,
but it was also food for the soul. A
visit with Granny warmed your heart. It
always put things in perspective. Granny
loved to share stories of her life and most of the time she found great humor
in the things that might be considered trials or tribulation. She was a pillar of strength for our
family. She set the bar for our faith
and obedience to God. She took on the
role of spiritual leader in our family and we all loved and respected her for
it.
My cousin Robin remembers getting those cherished invites
for supper. She married into our family
at 16 years old and immediately became one of Granny’s girls. Robin, her husband Carl and daughter Jennifer
would visit Granny for supper. Among the
various dishes Granny would cook, she always had a habit of serving canned
biscuits. Granny enjoyed cooking and she
certainly was good at it, but she was not fond of cooking homemade
biscuits. She put her effort into her
stews, vegetables, dumplings, etc., but was not a fan of rolling a lot of
dough. She always used the small canned
biscuits in the red or blue packages. I
am guessing the biscuits were just an afterthought, but while they might not
taste as good as Aunt IIadene’s made from scratch batch, when it was at Granny’s
house, they were perfect.
When a person projects so much love in everything they do,
we just soak it up every chance we get.
We love being with them. We are
in awe of their wisdom. “Bertie Biscuits”
as Robin and her family affectionately call the Superbrand canned biscuits
always trigger memories of those late afternoon meals with Granny. We would have gladly eaten anything to just
be in her presence.
My mother Ona is well known for her
chicken-n-dumplings. She makes them for
the whole family and whenever we have a gathering they are gone in a
flash. Bertie Mae taught her middle
daughter how to make the dish and guess what she uses for the dumpling….canned
biscuits…Bertie Biscuits. Granny always
said, “no sense wasting time on the dough.”
Granny could find a good use for even the simplest of things in
life. She had a way of taking every
situation and making it into a positive. This is a great approach to life and
one that was always backed up with her famous phrase, “The Lord is gonna take
care of me.”
Robin says she has always struggled to get her dough to cook
just right when she makes dumplings and then she learned the secret about using
“Bertie Biscuits.” Granny used those
same canned biscuits to make her blackberry pies. No sense wasting time on the dough. The blackberries are the most important
ingredient in the recipe. Don’t sweat
the small stuff. Ten years after our
Granny’s death her lessons are still teaching us what is important in life.
When you find yourself missing a loved one or grieving
because you are lonely, think about the sweet memories they created. You can still find them in the smallest
details of your life. God has a way of
comforting us with His sweet and tender gift of memory. Bertie Mae was the greatest woman our family
ever knew and as long as we remember her, the legacy lives on.
Love to you all!
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